12:1 And the Lord sent Nathan to David. He came to him and said to him, “There were two men in a certain city, the one rich and the other poor. 2 The rich man had very many flocks and herds, 3 but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. And he brought it up, and it grew up with him and with his children. It used to eat of his morsel and drink from his cup and lie in his arms, and it was like a daughter to him. 4 Now there came a traveler to the rich man, and he was unwilling to take one of his own flock or herd to prepare for the guest who had come to him, but he took the poor man's lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him.” 5 Then David's anger was greatly kindled against the man, and he said to Nathan, “As the Lord lives, the man who has done this deserves to die, 6 and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity.”
7 Nathan said to David, “You are the man! Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel, ‘I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you out of the hand of Saul. 8 And I gave you your master's house and your master's wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more. 9 Why have you despised the word of the Lord, to do what is evil in his sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and have taken his wife to be your wife and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. 10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’ 11 Thus says the Lord, ‘Behold, I will raise up evil against you out of your own house. And I will take your wives before your eyes and give them to your neighbor, and he shall lie with your wives in the sight of this sun. 12 For you did it secretly, but I will do this thing before all Israel and before the sun.’” 13 David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” And Nathan said to David, “The Lord also has put away your sin; you shall not die. 14 Nevertheless, because by this deed you have utterly scorned the Lord, the child who is born to you shall die.”
How do you take bad news? How do you take rebuke? How do you respond to chastisement?
There are certain times when we learn life lessons, but we have to learn the hard way. My greatest life lesson came when I was working at Sweet Mama's on St. Simons Island, GA in high school. This was a part time job and most days in the beginning I would give part time effort. One day, as I was sweeping up the front, half-heartedly, one of hte regular customers came in. He saw my efforts and very bluntly said, "If you're going to do something half-way, don't do it at all." As a 16 year old, I was very impressionable and appreciated what he said...much later. But at the time, it didn't quite sink in.
David is being rebuked by Nathan and rightly so. David exacts his own punishment before he realizes that he is at fault for killing Uriah and sleeping with Behtsheba. All he can do in the face of such behavior is confess. "I have sinned against the Lord." So how do you respond when someone lets you know that you could be doing better? What is your reaction when someone demands better of you?
As Christians, we should always be striving for good and the better way in this life because we believe that the next life will be even better. Today, confess to God what is holding you back from giving him your all. If you're going to do something half-way, don't do it at all.
Prayer: God, thank you for your grace in our lives which continually allows us to be better followers of you. Amen.
G. Thomas Martin